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Old 03-02-2008, 07:54 AM   #103
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I just had a LONG talk with her...it started out ok. I explained to her somewhat calmly that I was really upset about what she had done. She, however, was rude and insensitive. She said, "it's just hair, I can't believe you're making a big deal out of this...why would you leave his hair long like that anyways? The dog likes his hair short better."

That last comment...and I lost it. I pretty much screamed at her for about 15 minutes. She was silent...said NOTHING during the whole yelling...then she just hung up the phone on me.

I have pretty much decided to cut all ties with her at this point (no pun intended). I just cannot believe she would do this to me. And YES she knew I was growing his hair out. I had thought about showing him for God's sake... I had a conformation class scheduled for him... Guess I'll have to cancel it now...God that just makes me want to throw up.

I'm so upset right now...I know a lot of people reading this thread are probably like, "Nicki get over it, it's hair." But like Michelle (MyFairLacy) said, it's serious to me. It would've been different if I had done it myself. Sure I've given mine puppy cuts before, but now that I think about it...the only ones who I've done that to are the two cotton coats. Tuckers hair is not (well I should say WAS not) cotton...it was super silky, just look at his eye shine...bright green.

Thanks for all your suggestions guys...I'm glad I got it off my chest and talked to her, but at the same time I still feel like crap...I've just got to try to breathe and remember that he's NOT hurt...he IS still cute, just smaller now (haha). And...sigh...*tear*...she even cut off his top knot...

But really, I have to calm down because Brooke is going to have these puppies soon, and I know I have to try and tone down the stress for her. Sigh...what a night...

It's not just about the hair, it is about crossing the line. If she is such a professional, than she should know that people are very particular about their babies. The suing route may be an option, but is it worth spending more energy on someone who doesn't understand boundaries anyway? At least you got to tell her off. It's up to you whether you wish to forgive her or not, but it sounds as though she didn't think much of the friendship to start with. I would always wonder what other liberties she would take advantage of down the road.
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