im just reading this now and cannot believe she would do that! i keep dexter in a puppy cut as my choice, but i would NEVER tell anyone that they should do it too, let alone taking it upon myself to do it for them!!!
i know dexter is not a show dog and even though i do keep him in a puppy cut, if a friend of mine decided to trim him themself i would still be fuming!! no one but you should decide what is best for your baby!!!
im sorry that you lost a friendship, but it probably is best. imagine if you started showing Tucker and her jealousy kicked in then? who knows what she could have done!!!