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Originally Posted by iheartyorkies Too funny Kristy! My daughter did the exact same thing and she's still dating the little turd! I told her she does not want to start college with a BF still in high school. But she doesn't listen to me. Can ya tell I don't like him??? So how do I convince her to lose the dead weight and move on...I know, I better just keep my mouth shut, lol!!! |
I can tell her from personally experience that it is a really bad idea and it will only limit her possibilities for the future. I found a guy in high school that loved me and wanted to marry and since i didn't date a lot and had low self-esteem i thought he was the best i could do. I went to school in state (even though i had always been determined to get out of IN) to be close to him. He called me all the time and would verbally abuse me using things he knew upset me against me. He was sure I was cheating on him (found out later he was suspious of me because he was cheating on me with my cousin). He got me so upset that i ended up losing 18 pounds my 1st semester freshman year (i weighed 102 and i'm 5'7"), i would come home ever weekend (2 hours away) to try and work things out, and my roommate actually told him off becuase she would come in the room and find me crying in the closet because i didn't want anyone to know the way he was talking to me and treating me. I met a guy over christmas break that was wonderful and cute and i didn't start dating him, but it made me realize i was better than my high school boyfriend and didn't have to put up with his **** anymore. A week after i dumped him he started going with my cousin and i started living my life.