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Originally Posted by txrosegirl  awwwww  i was so hopeful after seeing the first update that things were better but it looks like sweet buddy is still sad and not adjusting as well as you would like him to
i really think it WILL get better with time and it has been less than 2 weeks, right? i am sure buddy is just not used to sharing you and your hubby and it will take some time for him to realize that you still love him just as much...
in the meantime, perhaps you could give him the mudroom back so he still has "his space" ... as little as that may seem, it is something familiar to him and something that has not changed with the arrival of miss lucy? if you give him his space back, he might realize sooner that he is still your spoiled little boy who is loved very very much 
good luck and i am going to keep checking this thread for updates! |
Thank you for your sweet comments!!!! As for the mud room...having giving that area has really worked out very well for Buddy. I know that I originally called the mudroom "Buddy's room" but he rarely was in there but to eat or get a toy. Now I have all his toys in the family room which he seems to love. I also moved his food and water to the kitchen which he seems to approve of this as well!!!
Having Lucy in the mudroom has actually turned out to be a blessing for Buddy. When Lucy is in the mudroom he gets some piece and quite and he gets all my attention. When Lucy is out of the mud room she trying to love and play with Buddy....and we all know how me feels about that!!!!
Buddy and Lucy are both so loving and sweet but just not to each other!! Well, Lucy tries to love on him but he hates it!!! All this just completely breaks my DH and I's heart!!! But we will keep trying!!!!