I agree ...Definitely nudge gently whom has got your mind to rolling. It is better to be safe than sorry.. You do not wanna live with (IF I WOULD HAVE SAID THIS THEN THIS MIGHT NOT HAVE OCCURED)
I love constructive criticism... Quite frannkly I learn from it.....
It is all in the person and how they react to you speaking with them that will definitely show you what type of "PERSON" they really are.
Im a big girl I can take it
Best of Luck
Vicki