I would just like to thank all of you for all of your great advice. I have learned so much from you all.
I know you don't hear enough about how much you have helped educate people but even when you don't realize it there are plenty of us out there silently reading and learning and truly thankful for your knowledge and experiences.
I understand how frustrating it can be with those who ask a questions but god forbid you answer truthfully: **Dont you see, just tell me what I want to hear--why else would I come looking on a public forum for help???** but please although i understand you needing a breather please know you a needed back asap!!!!!