Maggie does this too...After grooming..she will not come to me. she will go to dh all day long...but she gets mad and won't have anything to do with me for a while after she is bathed and groomed.
oh gosh...maggie is a mouthy buggar. if she gets in trouble, she barks at me. she makes kinda a growl/groan noise if I won't let her do something. she doesn't snap or do anything vicious, she is just talking back. it's really funny...but she gets in trouble for doing that too. it's a horrible cycle...she gets in trouble, gets mad at me, gets in trouble for getting mad at me.....you see the pattern???
anyway...it's hard to be too mad...these are just some precious babies...especially our bengi