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Originally Posted by tiggerr36792  To the OP I want to say that although you have said many times that these were only questions, asking these type of details about using a stud like that in an open forum does tend to leave room for assumptions to be made of your exact motives for those type of questions to have been asked in the first place. Yes you are entitled to ask any question you want this is a free country and all, however equally other ppl have the right to ask their questions as well.
I do have to think that I myself as a breeder would definately want someone to inform me of a thread of this type, especially if it was from someone they knew was purchasing/or will be purchasing a puppy from me. As far as I am concerned I feel it is and or was a very responsible thing to do when it comes to letting another breeder/friend/fellow yter become aware of any possible improper breedings with her puppies especially with one so tiny. Whether your question was or is innocent I really don't see anything wrong with other people helping Kimmie become aware of this thread as long as it wasn't done to be hurtful or attack you in anyway. Correct me if I am wrong, but if you were a breeder and I had knowledge of you selling one of your babies to someone who you were not allowing breeding rights too and I saw them asking the same questions as you did: Would you not feel it the proper thing to do and want someone to point the thread out to you?? I know I would feel awfully hurt if I found out a friend saw this same thing and didnt make me aware of it. Especially if later that same person was using my puppy to breed and I could have acted appropriately before it ever came to be a problem.
Now I am not saying in your instance this is or was the case as I do realize you were only asking questions with no intention of breeding, however there are 2 sides to every story and I truely feel that before this thread goes crazy with assumptions that ppl try to see the other view to someone or several people informing kimmie and the possible reasons behind it.
I myself think is commedable that others are looking out for each other in a positive way for our furbabies! Maybe I stand alone on this who knows, but I would want to be informed. I hope you all understand what I am trying to say here. |
Very well said. Deb
To the ones who think the flags that I stated were negitive.. Nope your reading in to it wrong.
A Red flag to me is a "WOW stop all do not go there"
A Flag is just that. It was stated flag but meant as.. her ?'s Raised ? of my own as to Really why this was asked.
as the OP has her rights to ask I also have my right to ? why..
the only reason I even posted was to let it be known that I did agree with the person who alerted Kimmie.
end of my post here.. I could say more but I am done here.
