I really feel for you.....We have some friends that the guy is in the NG and got out 3 years short of full pension (I think thats what is was)...One week after being out his unit was sent to Iraq.....that was 3 years ago. I think he felt really bad about not joining his unit in Iraq...he reenlisted this last fall to finish out his 3 years....just found out last week that his unit is going to Iraq sometime this next fall....they have 2 kids....very scary for them...and for us....I know the decision wasn't made lightly and it was the toughest decision our friends have or hopefully will ever have to make.... good luck with everything...I hope I don't have to go through what you are going through...I also have a 12 year old son.... |