I truly feel for you but cant offer much for advice. Our female viciously attacked our older male and we were never able to stop it. We learned to manage it as best we could because we could never part with either of them.
I so hope yours is just a temporary thing it is really stressful for everyone when they viciously fight.
Hugs
Glad the neutering went well too.
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