So my bf spent the night last night, and really put Harley in his place. I felt bad because Harley ran over to my side of the bed and I just turned my face away while my bf told him to lay down- in his meanest "dad tone" ever. It even made me scared!
After that, Harley finally went and laid down in his bed and went to sleep. It was about a 1/2 hour of fighting with him over it, but my bf handled it all. So it was a little bit of progress!