Aww Mandee I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I'm not really one to give alot of advice on this subject. I tend to draw lost causes to me (be it as a signifcant other or a friend) and let me tell you that I realized a long time ago that there is a reason they are called lost causes. It seemed like I was just hanging onto people because I felt like I had to give it everything I had or I was being a bad friend. Finally my junior year in college I had a revelation of sorts and cleansed myself of the people who said they were my friends but weren't giving back even 5% of the 200% I was putting in. And I thought I was going to be so upset and lonely but I am now sitting pretty with an incredible best friend and several other close girlfriends that are truly my friends. I hope that your friend decides to come around and start working as hard as you are on your friendship! But even if she doesn't, I hope that you know that we'll all be here for you.
Hugs,
Misty
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