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Originally Posted by soccbydo  I hit him, on his bottom open hand not beat him brutally, he didnt even squeak it was a small lash like a tap not a brutal hit, but the fact that I did it I am sorry fo that. He was not brutally lashed. I wont do this. But I did use my hand which I have never done before.
So again, condemn me, none of us are perfect, the fact that I was woman enough to come and confess this means I want to find a way to contain my temper.
I DIDNT HAVE TO CONFESS this I could have kept it quiet to myself. |
I'm not trying to condemn you for anything, but I think you don't realize how sensitive dogs are and how in tune to our emotions they are.
Raising dogs takes a lot of patience and love for the dog. Believe me, I have had my moments where I'm frustrated with the training process, but I never blame the dog and would never think of yelling or hitting them.
I'm the one that brought my babies into my home and made the choice to love them and teach them. It isn't their fault if I'm not training them correctly or if they have an accident. It's mine.
Confessing is fine -- but if you're confessing to having an anger issue with your dog on a public forum, I"m not sure what you expect to get in response. I'm not trained in anger management -- I just use my common sense and if I'm angry in a situation, I walk away -- calm down -- and come back to it later.
Nothing in life is worth getting so angry that you hurt those you love.
I'm not saying you're a bad person -- but you need to evaluate why you got so angry, and what you can do to never do this again.