[lilstar63100]

thank you all for all of your help so far!
i just have a few more questions. today was day 9 of pebbles heat and we brought her and the male together for the first time. at first he really wanted nothing to do with her so i figured it was still too soon. however, she would not leave him alone, constantly flagging. the male belongs to my boyfriend so he was here from about 6:30pm till about 9pm. at about 8:00pm Little Man started seeming really interested and began to mount. it took about a half hour of off and on before there was finally a tie, but it did happen.
so my questions are:

how many times do you let your male and female tie and how often?
i read in a book 3 times, once every other day. but what has your experience been?

also, the tie seemed like a tramatic experience for both of them. i made sure to hold them still as to not hurt eachother, but pebbles whined a little bit at first and little man seemed stressed out and panting. once they released they wanted nothing to do with eachother. it may sound stupid but will they not want anything do do with eachother from now on?



again thank you everyone for all your help!