nvnvgirl. I couldn't agree with you more. I belong to Mytoos also. it's a great site and it really gives people prospective on what they are getting into with a Too. So many buy them because they are so cuddly but they do not realize the committment. I had someone here from YT PM me awhile back about wanting a Cockatoo and asking advice about them. I told them the truth. That I've wanted one my whole life and finally for my 20th Wedding Anniversary got one as my kids were older and I felt the time was right. I further stated that I've had Boo about 3 yrs. and could I do it over again I would not have gotten one. They are great birds but NO ONE is prepared for a Cockatoo until they actually get one in there house. I've gone through two laptops (They love destroying keyboards. Popping those things out are fun) and the dander whether you are allergic or not will give you some sort of allergies. The screams can be deafening and did I mention destructive. Yes, do not leave them alone even for a second or you can come back to furniture, woodwork, you name it destroyed. And, let's not forget cooking. These babies need homecooked food, veggies, fruits etc. YOu have to provide for them as they would provide for themselves in the wild. I could go on and on for pages about care and committment let alone expense, a good Avian vet you can't walk into without a $300 bill. Anyway, the YT member never pmed back. I think I insulted her when I said that parrots do not make suitable pets. If anyone is interested in buying a cockatoo pls. PM me and I will give you very honest advice about care and expense and the committment needed then you can make an educated guess. Don't buy into the hype that the petstores sell as these babies are cuddling in your arms melting your heart. Most do stay cuddly but for the ones that get hormonal (males especially) they can rip your face open without even trying. Elaine |