Don't consider yourself obsessed consider yourself blessed!
The only problem that I had was feeling guilty about leaving Glory in her crate doing the day. Angel is completely housebroken, so he is not in his crate in the daytime only at night. A dog expert reassured me that Glory would not resent Angel for being out in the daytime, whereas she has to be coup up for four hours. He also said that Angel has certain privileges because he is the first-born. He said dogs are not like your three children where everything has to be in equal proportions.
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