It is one thing to be messy and sometimes dirty. I'll admit it, I live alone, and there will be dirty dishes in the sink for a week sometimes!. I have a pile of dirty and clean clothes piled up together right now. BUT I don't have children, and its just me and my furbutt- who by the way gets bathed weekly and any time he has as accident it is cleaned immediately with 2 different kinds of cleaners!
Let me ask you one thing, and not in a mean, sarcastic way! I know you said that she means well and loves her kids, but what kind of mother would let a 3 year old eat rotten food? The adult children are one thing, they have a choice to live that way or leave. But the 3 year old?? I say you report her, you never know what else goes on if she allows other people to see what you have seen! If she doesn't think any of that is embarrassing or wrong, how does she feel about things that are worse? What else is going on with those kids? |