I can still remember my first valentine's day as a married couple. My husband didn't buy anything or plan anything. We were still in the honeymoon, gushy, lovey-dovey stage and he didn't do anything. I was so upset and disappointed. He went to a truck stop and bought a yucky birthday card and crossed out the writing and wrote happy valentine's day on it because all the V-day cards were sold out.
But by that time I was too upset to even accept it.
He has made up for it over the past 18 years--anniversary is on Sunday.