Joy, My husband and I have lost all 4 of our parents in the last 2 years, the last being my FIL that was buried 1 week ago today. We have been married 33 years, so they were all elderly. My mom was the best friend I have ever had and I would have done anything for her. Do whatever it takes to help you and your mom make the transition easier. Regrets are hard to live with. All we can do is make the best decisions we can at the time. I will pray for you and your family
May God bless you all. Betsi