[SgtPeppersMommy]

I think the OP was decribing when they are home with the puppy, at which time it shouldn't be in a crate. I know this is what I was going through for potty-training as well. I began to think he wouldn't let me catch him because I scolded him before I tried to go get him, instead get her attention by saying her name then asking if she needs to go potty or ask her if she needs to go outside, whatever term your family uses. That may lighten up the mood so she doesnt scurry.