i think regardless of how we personally feel about debarking it is important to realize that this woman would BENEFIT (health wise and mentality as well) from having her baby right there with her in the event she has to go into assisted living ... we all know the health benefits of our furry ones and taking that away from her would just be too sad
i applaud the OP for having the courage to post on here for information ... she is trying to help this woman and trying to find ways to let her keep her furbaby
