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					Originally Posted by hha  Valentines Day is just another Day out of the 365 days..another way for hallmark and other places to make money..It should not be any different than any other day..any why would you break up with a b-f after 3 1/2 years?? Why did you stay with him 3 1/2 years if he was a worthless piece of crap? i just don't understand..guess it's because I've been married so many years, and I have always looked at the pros over the cons..my hubby can screw up once in awhile, we all can, but, my God, he gives me more joy in my life than he does sorrow..  | 
 
  thats not nice 

  Im sure it was not vday alone that led to the breakup.  I spent almost 10 years with a man who is a worthless piece of crap... how did I do that you must wonder?  Anger makes us say things that might not be true, also its amazing how much of a worthless piece of crap they can turn into almost overnight and you wait for them to turn back, you see glimmers of the man they WERE long ago and keep holding out hope until one day that hope is totally destroyed!  It happens 
 
 
I don't mean an attack sweetie 
 
 
  Im glad your marriage is good!  You are blessed!