Thank you all. I have received some PM's and offers to help in my research, which is all it is at this point.
I never expressed an opinion one way or the other. I'd prefer to never put a dog under anesthesia too, but I have.

Personally, I don't like tail docking or ear cropping either. But I also realize that many procedures may have a time and a place. Controversial procedures.
Again, this is not my pet. But I can tell you that there is no lack of love. Whatever the decision is, it's truly
not a selfish one.
The dog is several years old. She survived the death of this woman's husband of 50 years. She is a beloved family member, so great, great consideration is being given.
Thanks again,
Joy