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Originally Posted by ARCHIE  Harley is showing he's your main man and not your BF.
First off I would not allow him on the bed, ever!  Put his bed next
to yours but it's important he stay off the bed. Show him the bed
is yours not his. Second have your BF walk him and give him treats.
Your BF needs to be more involved in his life. You have to show him
your Alpha. His leader. I am sure he's a good boy but having issues
when your BF is over is not good. He just needs some re adjusting
of his way of thinking. Good luck and have patience. |
your actions the first time it happened reinforced to Harley that this would be acceptable
as you can see it escalated!!
do not reward after bad behavior with treats
your boyfriend will have to establish control,you cannot make harley respect him
HE HAS TOO!
CLAIM THE AREA THEN DO NOT ALLOW HIM IN THAT SAID AREA(BED COUCH ETC..)DO IT BY MOVING INTO HIS SPACE AND TELLING HIM BACK AS HE MOVES BACK YOU ARE ESTABLISHING YOUR DOMINANCE AND DO NOT SAY GOOD BOY HIS REWARD IS IN YOUR ENERGY WHEN HE RESPONDS TO YOUR COMMAND (HE KNOWS)
HECK JUST WATCH CEASAR MILLAN(AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TOUCH HIM IF YOU ARE AGAINST THAT PART BUT IT WILL TAKE MORE CREATIVITY AND PATIENCE)