Remember...it all needs to be on paper and notarized!! It can't just be a family agreement because one person throwing a fit about something would be all it takes to have your plans put on hold and then no telling what would happen.
If anything happens to my DH or I, my parents will be the guardians of my daughter and all the dogs. Course, I think my inlaws would be great too...it is hard to decide but it is something that is good to have written up in the case of something happening!
Course, if something were to happen to me, my family better know that I will be hanging around to make sure that my daughter and Mojo (and all the others) are taken care of....because if not....hauntings will occur!