I'm so sorry this hasn't been the experience you expected! I can relate a bit. I desperately wanted a second Yorkie and was so thrilled to bring Riley home. We had so many issues in the beginning, from having to keep her separate from Penny due to a health issue with Penny, to Riley's constant diarrhea, hypoglycemic episodes, refusal to eat leading to force feeding, kennel issues, etc. It was so frustrating, and I wondered if I would ever bond with her... and I wondered what was wrong with me.
It did get better, though. And she is now my heart.
So, if you and hubby decide to stick it out, know that things will improve with time, love, and patience.
If not, I think it's very kind of your breeder to offer to take him back. It sounds as if the breeder has the puppy's best interests at heart.
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