OMG.. I hear ya! Everytime I break up with a guy and say I want to be just friends, they NEVER leave me alone!!! IM, TXT, call, invite out...
My only guess on how to handle this is to be very honest when you break up with them. Tell them they are not for you and you do not want to be friends. I have SUCH a hard time hurting someone's feelings (as Im sure most people do) that when I break up with a guy I tend to leave the door a crack open and it gives them false hope that they may have a shot with me later on but thats not the case. I just need to start telling the guy that it is not working, period. So I hear ya!
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