V,
I've been playing "catch up" as I've been away from YT for TOO long! First of all, I'm so very sorry to read of the loss of your husband. Last time I was on the board, he was sick and we had even emailed about medical "stuff" (don't know if you remember that or not - but doesn't matter
). Losing a loved one is never, ever easy! Wasn't when I lost my dad 23 years ago and it was especially hard having lost my oldest sister VERY suddenly last month. Please accept my deepest, sincerest sympathy on the loss of your husband.
And I'm glad to read that you and the girls seem to be settling in to your new place! Adjustments and changes are always hard but ya'll will make it. The three of you are very strong and will take care of each other.
I look forward to being back on the board more and renewing the friendship I shared with you and the others here.
Have a great day!