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Originally Posted by juliaw04  I completely agree with marcerella02...I dated my high school sweetheart for 4 1/2 years before one day, out of the blue, he decided he wasn't in love with me anymore. Unlike marcerella02, I didn't lose weight, I gained weight  almost 50 pounds! It was because I did nothing but sit around the house watching movies, crying and pigging out on Ben & Jerry's. I was positive that my life was over...and it was, at least the life I had known was over. For almost 2 years, I didn't even try looking for guy. And finally, out of the blue, I became reconnected with an old friend and we have been dating ever since!
It is completely normal to feel like the world has stopped but you will find love again. For me, it happened when I was least expecting it. And finally, my ex and I have gotten to the point where we can be friends again. To this day, I still don't feel comfortable being alone around him, but I do enjoy talking to him on the phone. I really do consider him one of my best friends...we've shared alot of memories and neither of us will ever forget that. |
He IS my high school sweetheart... prom king and queen... all couples "want to be us" and it is just so hard to leave that life behind... to leave him behind. He's been my everyting since I was 16... and now we're 22 and SO much has changed but I still want to make it work more than anything. It's so frustrating.... OKay.... back to the book... haha I'll be okay. If he isn't willing to work on it then he isn't worth working it out with.
Thanks Guys. can always count on my YT family to make me feel better, hopeful and grounded