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Originally Posted by celstu1  He is still so angry at my mom. He said that he sees my mom in me and that surprises him. Anything he can say to try to avoid confrontation he'll say I guess, but thats ridiculous. He just won't see that his wife is the cause of this. Its me or my brother, or my mother (they have not spoken a word in 10 years and she has let go of her anger and moved on in life, he has not) he said my mother influenced us against his wife. So not true.... but my mom was there to lick our wounds when we were hurt by her. Like a PARENT SHOULD!!! |
This is exactly what I would tell him if I were you. I would also add that you love him very, very much and that you want to spend time with him and have a good Father/Daughter relationship. Remind him of what step person said to you.
I have two lovely step daughters and I would NEVER make a difference between them and my biological children. Nor would I make my husband choose. I'm sure I would lose anyway. And I should if I drew that line!
Remind him that you ALL can't be wrong. I agree with the above post. Do what you can to salvage your relationship with your Father. Not that you should have to make such an effort...life isn't always fair.
I wish you much luck with this situation. I know it has to be heart breaking for you.
Any chance you'll ever move closer to your Mother?
You're in my thoughts and prayers.