I just got done reading this whole thread and thought I had responded earlier, but I guess I'm losing my marbles
Anyway, add my prayers to the YT prayer power
Whoever is calling you is a sick $%#*@#$, I'm so sorry that you have to endure that on top of your already immense pain
Did it sound like the same person both times? You can get call trace added to your phone line, call the phone company about it.
I hope that your baby comes back to you soon!