That's heartbreaking!! Please know that everybody doesn't look down on truck drivers. Some of the most wonderful people I know are in that profession.
My friend & her hubby were going to Denver one day when they saw a wreck up ahead. A pickup pulling a camping trailer had overturned and rolled down an embankment. They inched on past in traffic and realized there was something up ahead causing traffic to swerve around it. When they got up closer and saw what it was, it was a little bitty Pug in the highway and it was terrified. She screamed for her husband to stop the car, jumped out, ran right into the traffic trying to catch that poor frightened pup. She sat right down in the road, calling the scared pup and he ran right to her and jumped in her lap. She held him close and ran back out of the highway and by then there were people frantically searching for him ... he had been in the truck that turned over!!
I so wish your friends could have had an angel like her to rescue their baby! I can only imagine their grief and will be praying that they will heal.