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Originally Posted by orinskye i noticed in your first post that you were kind of "dissing" his ex........ you want to avoid doing this, despite what you think of his ex (and cmon, how many of us are thrilled about our significant others ex girlfriends) HE fell in love with her for some reason and critisizing her and dissing her hisnt going to help (its fun to do it in private though  )....
and what do you mean dont move in????? i moved in with my fiance and we are not married yet  |
You have to do what you two feel comfortable with. don't let anyone else tell you it's wrong. If you're happy have at it. I didn't move in with my husband before we were married for few reasons, 1. my parents and grandparents would of dis-owned me 2. work, our jobs were 4 hours away for 3 months before we married 3. and staticists say the chances of getting divorsed are increased. And IMO I glad I didn't he drove me up a wall that first year and if we weren't married i might have given up on the relationship. Seeing us now that would of been the biggest mistake because we got through that first year and we're closer than ever now, but without that commitment I'm not sure I would of stayed. I'm kinda a quitter. But do what works for the two of you and dont listen to anyone else. everyone is different.