i noticed in your first post that you were kind of "dissing" his ex........ you want to avoid doing this, despite what you think of his ex (and cmon, how many of us are thrilled about our significant others ex girlfriends) HE fell in love with her for some reason and critisizing her and dissing her hisnt going to help (its fun to do it in private though
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and what do you mean dont move in????? i moved in with my fiance and we are not married yet