[missj2007]

I am so sorry you are going through this, I am also. I have trust issues and that really does hurt the relationship but to me you have to have a guy who is really willing to work it out with you and not give you reasons to not trust him. Now i also agrww that you both should try couple counseling the both of you have been together a long time and I think that your relationship is worth getting counseling on. I wish I could offer more. I hope everything turns out for the best.