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Originally Posted by yorkiegirl83  Yes, we actually did work it out. I saw other people, he didn't -- but in the end we decided we were better together and that we missed each other.
It was actually a really good thing for our relationship because when we got together I was 19, he was 28 so he had a lot more experience than I did in relationships.
He was my first serious relationship and I started to wonder what else was out there. I found out after all was said and done that I didn't really need to look anywhere else, because the person I loved, I already had.
It was really hard though and there were hurt feelings and tough times.
I'm sorry that he isn't being more supportive of your feelings and emotions. I can't imagine how that must feel. It is such a long time to be with someone and then to have it change so suddenly  .
Is it more just on his end, or have things not been good for a while for both of you?
I'm sorry he's being a meanie right now |
It's on both ends. He actually broke up with me over the summer (and during that time we live separately because we aren't in school and have to work back in our hometown) Sooo we both dated other people... feelings were hurt... but HE decided he wanted to get back together. So we did... and now he just doesn't think we make eachother happy. In all honesty my inability to trust him has led to a lot of our issues...