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Originally Posted by bizzbeth  But you two ended up working things out??
It's just so hard to break up with someone you've grown up with and then to have them turn around and make you feel like you're emotions are a waste of his time and energy.. after all we have been through and he's so bitter and angry over everything I say or try to say... and he just get furious if I start crying... I don't understand how people can be so uncaring... |
Yes, we actually did work it out. I saw other people, he didn't -- but in the end we decided we were better together and that we missed each other.
It was actually a really good thing for our relationship because when we got together I was 19, he was 28 so he had a lot more experience than I did in relationships.
He was my first serious relationship and I started to wonder what else was out there. I found out after all was said and done that I didn't really need to look anywhere else, because the person I loved, I already had.
It was really hard though and there were hurt feelings and tough times.
I'm sorry that he isn't being more supportive of your feelings and emotions. I can't imagine how that must feel. It is such a long time to be with someone and then to have it change so suddenly
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Is it more just on his end, or have things not been good for a while for both of you?
I'm sorry he's being a meanie right now