I guarantee she'll be out of the candle business in less than 6 months because once you pressure your friends and family for sales, business dries up.
Who wants candles? You can buy them everywhere....even in the grocery store.
She's just jealous.
I like the line.."I can make them in larger sizes ."
If she approaches you to talk, I'd keep it short and make a phone call while she's talking.
I'm sure other people are annoyed by her, too.
Actually, I pity her.