I have a male and a female. I had Mindy first and she is very sweet, sensitive and was pretty easy to train. Bear is my loverboy. He is a total pleaser and if he upsets you he is right on your lap wanting to say sorry. Mindy on the other hand runs and hides. Bear just wants to be near me and Mindy just wants to play with Bear. She is also my jealous one and if Bear is on my chest relaxing she will lay on top of him or walk in front of him to be closer to my face then him. She's hilarious. Both very different but I can't say one is better then the other. Mindy is also much easier to groom, doesn't move one bit where Bear wants nothing to do with it.
Good luck. Why don't you just get one of each. Then you don't have decide between the two.
