PATIENCE!!!!!!!!! toby was very clingy to me too (still is, but not nearly as bad) it was so bad that if i left his sight he went frantic..... now i can come and go and he is easily destracted, but when i come home there is no one in teh world except me (in his eyes)...... all i can say is get rest when you can, the first couple weeks i was taking a LOT of naps |