I can't offer any advise! Tessa has slept in bed with us since day 1
She loves to crawl under the covers (I have a heated mattress cover) and sleep either by my feet or curled up to my butt. Since I sleep nekked

I have to becareful of a cold nose

I worried about her falling off the bed but she seems to know when she is too close to the edge and will move between hubby and me.

I love waking up to her kisses in the morning