mary, you are just as if not more worthy of being here than other people (if you can even measure "worth" like that) ... you are a valuable community member of this forum...friendly, helpful and kind!
i think everyone who has come to YT has learned something valuable and it does not make us "bad" people that we did not have that knowledge before...i think you are a wonderful person and would never ever think badly of you for getting max from that terrible lady...you did ON YOUR OWN what most people only talk about...and for that i have the utmost respect for you
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