husbands can take us for granted sometimes, but take your smoke break,calm down,then address him. me and my hubby rarely argue but when we do booy is it bad. i know it can get sooo frustrating when you have trust in your hubby and then he lets you down. but i think you should talk to him about it and let him know how you feel,once you've calmed down. i think with you being this angry, the outcome won't be a good one. i hope you guys can work it out.