GOOD LUCK!
I feel for you!! I am unfortunate and have bad teeth...the dentist swears that it has nothing to do with family...but my Dad's side all has bad teeth and I was unlucky enough to inherit that.
We go once a year for cleanings and if they see anything, we go from there. AND I am sorry to say...I am not "attached" to my teeth and if one is too far gone...I would rather it be pulled than spend a small fortune to save that one tooth......is that bad??!!
I spent several years before I found my current dentist and I love him and the staff! There was one I really like a few years ago, but the office staff was horrible!!! And when he asked why we no longer seen him, I told him that office staff plays a big role in how a patient views their doctor.