Oh sweetie !! If you have your health and are happy in your life - do NOT give it a second thought - we are far more critical of ourselves then we should be....I've been thin my whole life and since hitting 45 have really been depressed also - but sometimes we need to remember the kind of person we are - Are we content that we are the best person we can be ? If you can say yes to that -then weight shouldn't enter into it -
We see too much on the media about looking good - and yes - sometimes we feel better thin...but if it's HARD to stay thin or difficult to get there ...then sometimes it's just not worth it !! It doesn't change the person you are inside.
Look arround you - there are MANY large women out there - look at Kristy Alley - she is GORGEOUS and will never be thin - she looks GOOD heavy and is very popular - I love what she's doing with her ads...but I also know she will always be a big girl - makes her no less in my eyes !!
My best friend battles her weight and she can out excersize ME !! course she's in her late 20's but she can kick my butt working out !
You have a husband who loves you - many woman would be envious of you for that alone !! I have an ill husband and feel sorry for myself (and him) sometimes - but then I always see someone who went thru worse and think we could be far worse off - So it's all in how you feel about YOUR life - If your life is good - then know that you are beautiful. |