awwww, Patti, I'm sorry. We have Bandit's ashes in a little box near his picture. About a week after we got them I found his little red bow under my son's bed. (He used to take it out because he didn't like a bow on a boy
) I opened the box and set it on top of his velvet bag and cried like a baby. It does get easier, I promise.Hugs to you.