We all have been there.
I think God sends them to us.
You can not truely appreciate MR. RIGHT...if you haven't met Mr.(COMPLETELY AND TOTAL) WRONG!
I dated a guy in high school, my first 'real love'. We dated for a year, before he broke up with me. After we broke up: we would run into each other around town and would talk. I moving our of state and lost contact with him. Many years later (15 years), I find out that he is works in the same town that I live in... less than a mile from my home. I sent him an email, inviting him to get together over coffee. We are both married and have children. It was nice to see him! But, on the way home, I just kept thinking to my self,
"What did I ever see in him? I am glad we didn't stay together...that is NOT the life I would have wanted".
I came home and told my husband how much I love the life we together!