I have a tough skin and nothing someone says can hurt me but I can become angry if someone keeps going on and on about it.say what you feel and leave it alone.
However I don't ask for advice If I can't(or don't want to hear it)

take the negative as well as the positive opinions.I think most people know before asking if it is really a contraversial
topic and people will be strongly against it.
there are some people who will ask for honest opinions and then are hurt by the opinions.they need not ask for advice.
If you are a reader and have been here a month you know already
I feel there are some really good people here that are taken advantage of by the lier's and scammers here. I have seen a few posts like that and it seems no one else could see it,but I didn't post because I don't think it would have helped or changed anything.