Oh, how touching! It really doesn't get easier. My theory is that the pain doesn't go away, it's just that as we move on it's not the foremost thing in our minds, and we think about other things. But when we stop and think about them, it's just as sad as when it happened. But remember, as long as Gracie is in your heart (and Scruffy) they do live on! Bandit will be gone 3 months on the 11th and when I look at his picture I still cry. I've lost a baby daughter, my mom and my dad so I'm no stanger to mourning. Love is love, and when you lose someone, human or otherwise, it's the same in your heart. You are in my prayers. |