Oh gosh, hugs to Bella - and to you too, Jackie! I'm sure your heart just sunk a million feet when you saw your Bella. It's so scary and wrenching whenever these babies are hurt. A couple of months ago another poster (following her baby's injury) said we'll all have to wrap our babies in bubble wrap....not a bad idea, I sometimes think
As for the "rehoming your son" comment from another post - I *think* that poster was trying to inject some humor....at least I think so...? I don't think it was meant as hurtful.

At least, I hope not.
Hang in there and hope Bella recovers quickly!